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Divest- July update

Do you ever wonder where the days vanish ? I did a time and motion study on myself at the start of the month and very quickly saw that things I thought took no time at all actually gobbled up ages. It won’t surprise anyone that the internet has far too many rabbit holes to fall down, or that I read a lot!

The surprise was how much time disappears on answering / reading emails that involve doing something first. Check your water bill, enter a reading for your energy meters, can so and so change an appointment with you, check your credit card statement, find information for your tax return, book the window cleaner. Honestly life really did seem easier when you just picked up a phone !

The benefit of the exercise was that I no longer beat myself up when I realise how little I’ve got done. One negative behaviour gone!

Meantime I reviewed all my regular activities to ascertain what I actually get out of them all. I thought the main benefit would be- Learn something new, get the little grey cells doing something. Turned out what I liked most was having a good old natter about the things I love doing and setting the world to rights! If I want to learn something new I am better off going to a workshop.

So all this introspection has helped me choose to drop two of the groups I attended and not join one I thought I might.

During July and August only two of my regular activities have continued what with summer holidays etc. This has given me more time at home which I have to say I am loving. We are having a typical British summer..sunshine and showers, It rains, the weeds grow, the sun shines I dig up the weeds. Indoors I get on with chores.. My son suggested that the freestanding shelving unit his Dad put up is superfluous to my needs and life in the utility room would be easier without it. He’s quite right it gets in the way of the freezer and the back door. When we were lockdown in you know what we had it stacked with supplies of this that and the other. I am gradually running these down and not replenishing them, trying to get out of that hoarding mentality. I’m nearly there.

And finally I am trying to finish things and not start anything new until September or I run out of things that need finishing.

OK , stop laughing because we all know I won’t be running out of things to finish for a very very long time!

So gradually the stuff is getting less. Yes I could go faster but it’s ok to pace myself, and finishing things is a Good thing, and knowing where time goes is another good thing, doing the things that need doing in a timely manner is also a Good thing. Just sitting in the garden with a book though, positioning myself so I can admire my efforts though is the best thing of all.

Joining with Carolyn for our one word reviews here- https://youronewordblog.wordpress.com/2023/07/31/checking-in-7-23/

Silent Sunday

Fairford, Gloucestershire. The Mill pond, the River Coln and the Oxpens. If you go through the Oxpens you will be on a footpath across Fairford Park and walking in the footsteps of J. R. Tolkien and C. S. Lewis, this was one of their favourite places to walk and discuss their writing, But don’t go on Tuesday as the footpath will be closed.

Books- July 23

It’s been an amazing reading month. So many great books which have really drawn me in. Here they are :-

T M Logan- The Catch- This is a really good psychological thriller. Ed meet’s his daughter’s latest boyfriend and his instincts tell him that Ryan is bad news. Then his daughter announces that they are getting married and Ed knows he has to uncover Ryan’s secrets and fast. A real page turner. Found a random piece of paper on the coffee table with this book’s title scrawled on it.. I’d seen it on TV and made a note of the book. Well, well!

Margareta Magnusson- Dostadning-the gentle art of Swedish death cleaning. When my step mother died my Dad did nothing with her possessions other than fill in her last tax return. My step brother, our spouses and I had to do the whole house. Mostly I did it, Barry was good at burning papers and Mr E rescued tools etc to bring home with us.. Mr E’s way of moving house was to bring everything he could persuade the removal men to squeeze into the van and put in the double garage. This is not fair on the people who will eventually have to clear out the stuff. And for the last 22 months I have been death clearing my Dad’s, my Mum’s ( fair do to my brother he made almost too good a fist of dealing with Mum’s possessions for which I am eternally grateful) and Mr E’s possessions. I am also determined not to leave a stuff legacy of my belongings to my sons. Hence my aim this year to Divest myself of stuff. It’s not easy as I have angst over it in my posts. I borrowed this book for help and ideas. Turns out I have worked out for myself everything she has beautifully written about. The main thing I am taking away from it , is the need to keep going, gradually letting go of more and more things. Photos and letters will be the last to go.. But all those electronic components, wires and things I have no idea what they are can go. And clothes.. Just because something doesn’t have holes or rips in it doesn’t mean I should keep them. Glad I read the book if only to confirm I am on the right track.

Ann Patchett- The Dutch House – I chose this book pretty randomly from the library. I’d heard of the author and the cover caught my attention, plus a house was in the title. I really enjoyed this book. Beautifully written, I could picture some of the areas in New York and some of the plot resonated with my life experience … All of which enhances my likely enjoyment of a novel. Briefly, Danny and his sister live in the Dutch House with their Dad. Their mother is absent and their father rather distant. Then Andrea is introduced to them by the father and everything changes. Over the years they return to sit outside the house and try to make sense of what happened. It’s described as a ” story of family, betrayal, love, responsibility and sacrifice”. I shall be reading more of this author for sure.

Stephanie Butland- Lost for Words- This was a lovely can’t put you down book. Set in a bookshop in York, with scenes in Whitby, and call outs to Ripon, Bridlington, Pickering and Malton – I was home! Not only books but poetry too. And a mystery. I mean what’s not to like ?

Grace McCleen- The Offering- oh this one is also a real page turner. It came recommended by a friend whose taste I trust. From the back cover.. Madeline and her parents move to an island, as her father believes he has been guided by God. Here she revels in the beauty of her surroundings. The family is alternatively euphoric or reeling from disasters. On the eve of her 14th birthday Madeline does something to save her beloved mother. Something so traumatic her mind blocks it out, until a new psychiatrist helps her unlock her memory , but he is on dangerous ground.

Julian Fellows- Belgravia. This from my TBR list. Set in the early years of Queen Victoria’s reign , a tale of the going’s on amongst the aristocracy and up and coming trades and business class.The style of writing struck me as a bit odd at first. It felt to me like he was setting in the scene and creating a script for a film, then either I got over myself or the plot gathered pace and I was hooked. Stand by for a story of secrets and scandals, a culture clash between the upper and business classes and a love story or two. Thoroughly enjoyable. I gather it did become a TV drama but that had passed me by.

Esme Young- Behind the Seams- Generally speaking I don’t like autobiographies. Here’s an exception, I loved it. It reads as if you are having a cosy chat to someone about their life. There’s no “look at me I am so great” about it. Esme is best known as a judge on The Great British Sewing Bee. She is also a lecturer, an excellent seamstress, pattern cutter, costume maker and part of a former clothing company Swanky Modes. She starts by describing her childhood and terrific relationship with her siblings, before moving onto her London life in the 60’s with lots of nightlife, parties and gigs. Yes she did sit on a window ledge with David Bowie and has made costumes for films, but name dropping is kept really low key. She sounds great fun, lives life to the full even now when she’s past normal retirement age, and is a real inspiration.

Caitlin Doughty- Smoke gets in your eyes , and other lessons from the Crematorium. The author tells you how it is. Her writing style is entertaining yet spares no punches. She lifts the lid on the funeral business (it is American, and in the UK things are done slightly differently) but raises how she believes Western culture has distanced itself from death. She traces how this has occured, and how different cultures treat their family members in death. If you are squeamish this book won’t be for you. I also warn you that the chapter entitled Demon Babies maybe upsetting. However, it will make you stop and think about your attitude to death, and what you would like for yourself. My belief is that if we avoid talking about death we just make life harder for ourselves and our family.

Rebecca F. Kuang- Yellowface. I am firmly in the loved it camp! The author describes her book thus- “A horror story about loneliness in a fiercely competitive industry”. And from the front cover – Athena is a literary darling but when she dies in a freak accident, her friend June, a wannabe literary star , seizes an opportunity to steal the first draft of Athena’s next novel , make it her own and publishes under her name to great success. But success is not what she thought it would be, as it comes tinged with the fear of being found out and shamed as a thief. I couldn’t put it down and as there’s a large waiting list for a copy I felt totally justified in neglecting little things like cleaning, and just reading it right through.

So that is my rather impressive list of books for July. Have you read any of them, what did you think?

Unraveled Wednesday

Wednesday again. Hurrah and time to check in with all things yarn.

I have now crocheted all the blocks for the blanket and have started to join them up. I feel it was such a good idea to use a little yellow into the claret and grey mix.

And as to reading- I have now started Yellowface by Rebecca F. Kuang. Some ,I know, haven’t enjoyed it, but I am doing so. Oh the perils of jealousy!

Meantime I am super excited because I have picked and eaten my first courgette, and yes it does deserve a photo of it’s own.

And more to come. The work on the forlorn patch is paying off!

Meantime please join Kat and the others for more crochet, knitting and books. Link here- http://askatknits.com/2023/07/25/unraveled-wednesday-7-26-23/

Unraveled Wednesday

Heigh Ho, another week has gone by. Time really does fly. I have had another good week. Mrs T ( No 1 DIL) had a big birthday on Sunday and a lovely Sunday lunch in a hotel for family and friends. Finally got all my tax papers together to deliver to the accountant on Friday. Helped sew all last weeks poppies onto backing fabric , only to find myself agreeing to make more when Coral found me more red yarn (do I have muggins writ large on my forehead?). I’ll take the yarn with me when I go to Sussex in August. Today I took Miss F, granddaughter, to a butterfly farm and animal centre.. We fed goats. All great fun.

I keep thinking things are slowing down a bit for the Summer but sometimes I think I am deluding myself.

Some progress on the crochet blanket as mentioned in my last post. Just three more squares to go. I have even picked up the baby blanket again for the baby unit at the hospital.

This was the start back in January. I’ve now done 6 inches. Total finished length is 15. Been on this way too long.

Meantime I have been enjoying my heap of these books.

Now on the last one. Smoke Gets In Your Eyes. Set in San Francisco , hurrah. Could be sub titled Confessions from a crematorium. The author has a real vocation and an engaging writing style. I am enjoying it as she lifts the lid on an occupation one rarely hears about, but probably should.

Yellowface has now arrived at the library for me, and with six people waiting patiently for it, ’twill be my next book.

In case it missed you by, Richard Osman’s 4th Thursday Murder Club book is being published in September and I am optimistic about getting my mitts on a library copy quite early on.

Joining with Kat and others.. Link pary can be found here http://askatknits.com/2023/07/18/unraveled-wednesday-7-19-23/

Scrap Happy- July 23

It’s the 15th day of the month and a time to celebrate making things with leftover or scrap items. I am on a two month mission to finish a few WIPs which have been around for a while now awaiting yours truly to pick them up and get on, instead of falling for the allure of a new shiny project.

Having got the poppies done midweek, see previous post, I have pulled my finger out to make some headway with the crochet blanket.

The pile is growing again. I believe I have seven more blocks to go before I crochet them together.

In case you missed an earlier post this is the bunting in situ.

I love knowing the history of all the fabric scraps I used. It’s a memory bunting.

Please join with Kate and the others for Scrap Happy day.- https://talltalesfromchiconia.wordpress.com/2023/07/15/scraphappy-july-6/

Unraveled Wednesday

So with one finish behind me last week I decided to concentrate on the crochet poppies for Remembrance Day in November for the church display.

So that’s fifteen more to take on Saturday for another sew up morning. I’ve run out of red yarn now. I reckon I made about fifty in total so I’m calling that done.. at least for now. I’m determined to finish a few things befor starting another thing. Famous last words?

Meantime I am well on with reading from the pile of library books.

I started from the top, and those first two are really good- more on them at the end of the month. I’m now in the opening chapters of Belgravia, and it’s looking good.

Joining with Kat and other for more unraveled yarning- link here http://askatknits.com/2023/07/11/unraveled-wednesday-7-12-23/

Unraveled Wednesday

I have a very nearly finished today, just a few ends to sew in tonight and ’twill be done.

It really shouldn’t have taken me as long as it did, but there we are. I bought the buttons from my now favourite button shop in the town centre, and whilst in town bought some theatre tickets for September.

Talking of buttons, here they are in detail.

Love them. Each one appears to be a slightly different pink, some lighter, some darker.. fits in nicely with the yarn. Completed just in time for Toddler P’s second birthday in August. I have yarn for two more cardigans for her, then I reckon that will be it as Nana’s knits loose their popularity in favour of commercial garments. Not to worry I ‘ll knit for charity instead, or maybe even for me.

Actually I had a look at the second sock today. It’s quite clear I did the heel wrong, it no way looked like the one I did in the workshop. Correct number of stitches but just wrong. I’ve gone back to the heel and shall have a second bash at it.

I’ve had quite a good reading week. I came across an oldish notebook whilst having a bit of a tidy up with a few pages of books to read. So I requested some from the library, and picked them up at lunchtime today, as I returned one that I absolutely disliked.. I don’t like streams of consciouness and that’s all there is to it, apparently that particular book kept it up throughout. Life is too short to battle on. Anyway this is the lovely pile I collected today. Which to start with?

There’s more on the way from the other town branches. Hurrah!

Oh and I promised a while back to take a picture of my finished bunting.

Front and sideways view

I’ve finally got all my plants in and it’s rained a bit so maybe there will be flowers soon. The apple tree in the distance is dead, didn’t make it, I’ll take it out and put a rose in I think. Two of the other apple tress don’t look too happy, the leaves got scorched, but three look fine and both plum trees look very happy. Neighbours on two sides have now put up their own sun shading structures, Yah I’m a trend setter in my old age!

Joining with Kat and others for yarny chat- link herehttp://askatknits.com/2023/07/05/unraveled-wednesday-7-5-23/

Divest- July thoughts

I have been thinking a lot this last week about my one word for the year. I have made great strides in lots of ways, the garden , repairs, getting things done in a timely manner, improving the quality and quantity of sleep but something has been niggling away at me too.

Last year my one word was Balance, and that’s what I had forgotten to consider. June was a truly wonderful month. Something I never thought I’d ever say as for the last umpteen years I’d have said that it was one of the months I liked the least.. Either too hot or wet and disappointing. It was hot but I learned to live with in. Gardening early or later in the day, taking naps, being busy..

And there’s the rub. Being busy. I have been on outings , walks, picnics and loved them all. But I have missed my occasional solo outings and my knitting, embroidery, crafting time was squeezed and squeezed. I now find myself with far too many projects started and left to one side whilst I commited to another and another.

It’s coincided with a change of funding to the U3A groups I belong too..7 would you believe with an 8th under serious consideration by yours truly. Briefly I used to pay one lump sum and join as many as you like. Next academic year it’s a much smaller lunp sum and top up for each group you join. It’s not a question of funds for me as none are expensive but it does give me pause for thought.

How do I want to spend my time. The house and garden take more time than I had thought. I have realised the importance of rest . I have to allow time for that. I love all the groups, but I’d like to have the time for solo activities. I need to restore some Balance and maybe withdraw from somethings. So July will be a time for thinking.

Thank you for reading. Your thoughts and comments really do help me, so thank you for them.